Dear Johan,
A great example of alignment is when someone knows that I love them even when, in the moment, I can’t feel it.
A great example of alignment is when what I do, when I’m not trying to signal, signals to the other person that I love them....
Today we explored forgiveness in a relateful coaching context. This was a new experience, looking at how we relate to forgiveness... intead of directly working on self forgiveness....
Emotional Presence
Orgasm is a paltry goal
Orgasms aren’t always a clear yes-or-no thing for me. There’s an ever-growing range of pleasurable experiences that I call “orgasm,” and the one I’m certain would be widely agreed upon as an orgasm is the least pleasurable one for me...
Calm your heart down
let your heart walk steady through the world.
let your heart give gently and generously
let your heart break and bleed peacefully
let your heart rest....